Ray J, WTF Were You Thinking?!

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gucci7383 — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 13:21:19 GMT

thats what i'm talkin bout ray j. dont love these broads. give them ass to mouth like a porn star. they money hungry and will do anything to hang around stars 4 a piece of fame

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Lilhd47 — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 13:25:11 GMT

what!!!!!!!! CRACKIN'

GANGSTA!!!!! CRIP!!!!!

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Black Afghan — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 13:27:00 GMT

First !!!

Ray J a damn fool for this one. I don't agree with the way he addresses women in this track but people, let's be real. There are women out there that have absolutely no respect for themselves. I was taught that to earn respect, you must first respect yourself. Still.. Ray J a damn fool. LMAO

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Stagez — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 13:30:57 GMT

Damn So Close!!!

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ZHOOV-BOY — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 13:33:05 GMT

YES i agre that tape was WACK 100%
KIM is fine but she cant FUCK OR SUCK DICK
and thats real
and Ray J is a lame on that tape
he didnt do shit
even my wife was laughing at how lame that video was
and ever since that tape that nigga been thinking he is on top of the world
and this song is LAME as well

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Rosco! — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 13:39:13 GMT

LMAO! Yall shoulda saw mah face when i was reading the lyrics. But.....I mean what more did u expect from ray j? ONly thing he good at is fukkin................no homo!

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FRESH-SHAUN — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 13:59:30 GMT

I still think Ray-J a beast. I think iof you a fan then you have to be fan of the pros and cons and only God can judge them. Like dude said above there are women that don't give a fuck like Ray so he's not talking to all women just like he said the sluts and freaks. If i had a daughter I wouldnt hide this song from if she heard it. for one, i'm wise enough to know how to explain thangs and i would tell her if you have sex wit alot of guys and not respect yourself when it comes to sex, then this is how men will refer to you. The writer of this blog needs to get over her shock because the world aint finished shocking you. This article ain't shit though just kinda funny when i think about the lyrics. I bet when Khia raps her lyrics, you dont get all shocked when she degrading men. And if you don't get shocked when listening to Khia degrade men writer, then that means you're subconciously sexist

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cdubb — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 14:02:50 GMT

for some reason, i feel like this will be an ipod favorite. personally i think this shit is wack,

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Hard Liquor — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 14:06:01 GMT

Unfortunatley......this one is going to be a club banger. I hate it, but some club DJ is going to bump it to a house full of drunks, and even the girls in the spot are going to bump to it. Its how it goes.
You gotta give him props for not using the vocoder thou!

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kgm1985 — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 14:13:14 GMT

why post this shit? why in the FUCK would you compare this to "bitches aint shit" or anything else in that matter? if i were to see you then I wouldn't smack you like you would do gay-j but i would beat you senseless for disrespecting hip-hop like that! I wouldn't do that but on the real this is ridiculous how niggaz try to make a name off of a porno and shit! they get a couple of hoes and money on theyy own now they rolling stones? get the FUCK outta here! for real, comparing gay-j to dre is like comparing chino xl to pac! the math dont add, subtract, multiply or divide! he may get all this attention but lets not forget how got him here in the first place........the same sibling of his that is topping the charts once again. BRANDY! i bet he wont talk about her like that! lmao, come on dawg A SEX TAPE MAKES YOU G NOW?!?!?!?!? fuck that! i can make a sex tape now does that make me anymore hood than a nigga out here with hella felonies and stuck in the pen? HELL NO! man this is why im done with listening to hip-hop anymore. crazy shit like this, kids saying wayne is better than pac. saying ross is better than big. i mean i cant take this shit anymore. youngins need a hip-hop history album and i guess ill have to be the one dropping that since these niggaz done lost touch of what this shit is supposed to mean! what happened to the tribe, blackmoon, spice 1, jeru the damaja, etc.? why arent people talking about them? they should get love just like every other lyricist that got shine! lyricism is more than just who sells the most its about who can bring the most versatile flow at all costs! lmao, im ready to change the game and its that time niggaz. watch for that Area 911 not only is it a problem but its a THRILLER! keep it righeous and peace KGM

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BlackandBlueCEO — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 14:17:43 GMT

lol

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NeleBMe — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 14:20:17 GMT

I'm a major brandy fan and for that I respect ray j and his music...But this song is TRASH! and not just because of the lyrics. He has no real beat behind all the garbage he's singing about, his voice is monotone and it just sounds like he's trying to be cool by being disrespectful. This song is soooo incredibly whack that I had to comment. Ray J PLEASE!!!!!!! stop it ur getting out of control now. you sound like a clown lol.

And I don't see this getting much playing the club, there's nothing in the song to make the people move.

-Nele

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Cabana da Don — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 14:20:31 GMT

LMAO allhiphop.com made this shit a hit.lol.The funny thing is that this nigga is just telling the truth.You know hoes are trowing him the pussy lol.This is too funny.You know this is going to be a club banger lol.This is a wild song but I heard worse rap songs(eminem).

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Biggheavy — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 14:29:38 GMT

True, this song is disreprectful to women...I have a young daughter, so I'm very mindful of what she listens to, what she is exposed to, and her perception of herself. Hopefully my guidance will ensure her future as a strong, educated, respectful, independent black woman.

However....

You gotta admit...it IS a little funny coming from Ray J...I kept saying to myself "THIS nigga clowning"...I was chuckling my ass off!..."I said GOTDAMN!...This cat REALLY feeling himself right now"....

If it was anybody else I'd say they're bogus as hell, but from RAY J, the same dude that got boo'ed and cried about, it's HILARARIOUS that he's hardcore mackin' and a tough guy now...

Is he still beefing with B2K?

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EE-City — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 14:34:05 GMT

The beat is hot though and i was laughing like crazy when i heard this-LOL thanks for the promotion, i had no idea this song existed. He need to get snoop on that for that old skook dont give a fuk feel.

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Fice — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 14:39:06 GMT

THIS A UNDERGROUND HIT SINCE EVERYBODY'S FREESTYLE SINGING I BET THATS WHAT HE DID!!!! AND THAT NIGGA JUST SAID ALL MY HOMIES YELLING SUWU I HOPE THIS LIL NIGGA AINT BANGIN BLOOD NOW!!!!! NO DISRESPECT HE PUTS OUT GOOD MUSIC HE JUST DONT NEED TO HURT HIS IMAGE RIGHT NOW!!! WAYNE GOT EXPOSED!!! D4L WENT FROM LAFFY TAFFY TO BANGIN BLOOD!!! IS BANGIN A TREND NOW??? YOU GOT NIGGAZ DYING OVER THIS SHIT AND TRYNA SURVIVE!!!! KEEP IT REAL YA'LL IF YOU JUST STARTED BANGIN AT 40 YOU AINT REAL MY NIGGA

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TaylorMade_TaylorBranded — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 14:46:34 GMT

his fanbase is prolly 90-95% ladies....if y'all dont like it, dont support it...plain and simple...

this one here is old and funny to me though:

kurupt / your girlfriend is a hoe
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XVnj_uQDCIk

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DJ TEKNISION — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 14:54:46 GMT

RAY J WHOLE CAREER IS A WASTE!!!!

GOOD MUSIC FOR GOOD PEOPLE.............

http://djteknision.podOmatic.com
MIXES 4 EVERYONE!!!!

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odeisel — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 14:55:44 GMT

this song is wild. when i heard this shit i bust out laffing. like word? weren't you boo'd up with kim k, lil kim, and whitney houston?

bad move considering all his fans are girls. This is like young berg and darkbuttgate

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Mightydog — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 14:57:59 GMT

Nia B if you live in NY then you have NO excuse for living under a rock!! this is over a year old & was on the Ray J Kay Slay mixtape. If you DONT live in NY I'll give you a pass. But really bringing me SUCH OLD NEWS is not a good look! What next? are you gonna tell me 50 & Vivica broke up?

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Haughville — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 15:10:17 GMT

lmfao....this is some funny shit! nia b, u need to fall back off all that shock and awe shit...u might wanna see if essence.com got a spot for you with all that sensitive shit....

*********STUPID QUOTE OF THE DAY*************
"I have heard some songs that were full of misogyny, but I never expected to hear something from Ray J that was so disrespectful, appalling, sexist, degrading and flat out foul."

@nia b
what ray j you been listenin' to and watchin' on the screen? how the fuck you gonna be sooo shocked at ray j when this niggas last joint was "sexy can i" where he wants ta hit that shit from the back if u like it like that? or maybe u missed that lil video of ray snakin' kim? you did see the part that involved them fuckin' and suckin' on tape right?
gtfoh! you was really feelin' holy this sunday morning.....anyway, i'ma fall back off you....the song is double wack!!

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bknewstash — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 15:17:29 GMT

wtf. these celebrities are outta control with their fake ass gang affiliation.Everyone wanna shout soo woo nowadays.Shouting that shit for security.that shit is corny as fucc.them porkheads will let any rocc with them.

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LOVE336 — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 15:29:05 GMT

this song is just ridiculous, i couldn't believe some of the shit i was hearin, he's on some immature pimp shit, (she wants me for my money but i'll give her some e just to be sure i can hit it)

you can't be mad at a woman who is in it for the money when your only in it to get laid

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FelLoc — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 15:34:43 GMT

@ bknewstash

Yeah i dont understand what that soo woo shit was. that nigga know he dont bang so he need to checc hisself. celebrities need to stay in they muthafuccin lane cuz!!!

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Sovietnam — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 15:36:46 GMT

1. I can tell that this wasn't written by a person who took a.........

2. Didnt the Chronic come out in 92? i mean, i think i would remember that. it was a good year. (this is allhiphop.com, know the ledge)

3. The lyrics wasnt too disrespectful if ya ass quoted it "word for fucking word."

4. Why can't fellaz bug out over females that's HOT? It's not a problem. that's what makes the world go round.

5. I'm pretty sure Ray J's mom supports him in anything that makes them money. Moms not mad. Thats why she put her kids in the biz at early ages.

6. Cut him some slack. Ray J iight. He did his thang on "Moesha", and "Wait a minute" is still bangin.....

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long_tong — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 15:37:04 GMT

its not that different from any other mysogynistic song out there. leave the boy alone, and let him eat.

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Skeet Dirty — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 15:39:33 GMT

This sounds like a message to someone he had sex with...

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GRap_y-not — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 15:43:48 GMT

This song is straight poo...I mean who this dude think he is...I know who he is...Brady's brother that how this dude got on....and he aint that thight really!!!!! As far as the track yeah there are alot of females out there that dont give a fuck about there self and will do anything to be with a celebrity and usually they do...we call em' groupies and there are alot of them...so I really dont know what to say about the lyric content cause i have heard worse and this dude korny anyway...so it will never get any play besides right here!!! Why all these celebs trying to be gang members now...ray j really zoo woo??? wtf this dude dont know shit about no zoo woo .... he just trying to get respect from these real street n@ggas and it just aint happening... cut the bullshit Ray J this one didnt make it!!!

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KOTTIN313 — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 15:46:52 GMT

You can tell Wayne wrote that for him lol Ray J aint that dirty listen to how he delivers it Wayne all day guess wayne ghost writes too

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hotfire82 — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 15:48:08 GMT

@Nia B

You need to get over yourself for real if you ask me this shit ain't no different than from what these rap nigga & R & B niggas far as I'm concerned he told the truth about these fucked up women.
______________________________________________________

Ray J sound like he had too much henessy though when he did this track though Listen to how he starts out the track

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Katalyst — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 15:51:12 GMT

What did you expect from a dude that does sex tapes HUH?
I mean it aint like he had a rep like KRS1 or CHUCK D.
Why be shocked you already know his M.O.
I remember when Akinyele made the "PUT IT IN YOUR MOUTH" Joint the Club went crazy when that ish came on and its gone be the same with this.
Good Morning!

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CarolinaCandee — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 15:51:39 GMT

*Sorry for the long ass post, but it needs to be said dammit!*

Boooooo! The engineer is to blame. He should have stopped recording as soon as he started with that mess.

I usually support any artist and their vision, but this is absolutely ridiculous. "Snakes in the grass" is a common reference to enemies or someone hiding, trying to get close to you and do you harm. I understand how some women can be a bit hoodratish and do unsavory things, but damn. If you are going to name a track something like that, atleast tie the concept into the lyrics somehow. I know KK has you a bit tight, if you're going to speak, SPEAK.

OH AND THE "I DON'T GIVE A FUCK" LINE IS WACK. IN CASE YOU DUMBASSES WHO WILL BE SHOUTING THIS OUT "IN DA CLUB" DON'T KNOW, SOMEONE NOT GIVING A FUCK IS WHAT CAUSES MILLIONS OF PEOPLE TO DIE OF AIDS A DAY. SO WHILE YOU JACKASSES ARE TOSSING DOWN SHOTS OF PATRON, BOUNCING TO THIS BULLSHIT, LET YOUR BETTER JUDGEMENT OR COMMON DAMN SENSE KICK IN AND REALIZE YOU SHOULD GIVE A FUCK. ABOUT YOUR SELF, AND YOUR SAFETY IF NOTHING ELSE. GIVE A FUCK AND WRAP IT UP!! That's why certain races look down upon us as over sexed, under educated, low class people. And as long as we support Gay J and his fake gangsta pimp lyrics and the millions of fake ass rappers and homeboys like him, we will continue to be the race at the bottom of the totem pole. Dumbasses! SMDH

And one last bit of advice to Ray J, I saw your lil video. We all know you "don't give a fuck" atleast not a good one. So I wouldn't expect you to be bragging.

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Kappagem — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 15:55:55 GMT

I hate to be jumping on the bandwagon, but I have to agree with MOST of the comments above. I mean....let's see...

Ray J has been a fool with it for a MINUTE now. For real...

It almost seems like you haven't been listening to Ray J for like 5 or 6 years or something Nia?

And then to get so "upset" over a song? I don't know why...

It's not like Trina's LOOK BACK AT ME is an epitome of how a woman should be (I like that track by the way:), or Dre's "Bitches Ain't Shit", or Nelly's "Tip Drill", or Khia's "My Neck, My Back". I mean, come on...

I really don't think jumping on this Ray J track is the way to go. THere really are women out there like that, and if/when I do have a daughter, I want her to see the differences in how women treat THEMSELVES. I want her to know that if she is out there lettin' dudes "hit it in the back of the Pizza Hut", then she will probably be treated and looked at as a whore. And she can't get upset about it, because she would be putting herself out there as a whore.

I've seen women come from the slums, and be upstanding women. I've also seen women come from the suburbs, and be the biggest ho's. Mommy and Daddy were there, and raised her, and loved her, and did all they could, and she still CHOSE to be a whore.

In life, it's OUR PERSONAL CHOICES that help decide our plots in life. Yes, there are "exceptions", but let's just talk about THE NORM. I don't think Ray J should be jumped on for this song, as much as he should for much he sucked singing it:). Not the lyrics though. Nia, you sounded a little feminist in writing this. For real.

And I'm not getting on you, I'm just disagreeing with you, especially when there has probably been women dancing to this bullsh*t in the clubs. I, personally, thought the track was funny. But no different than the nasty sh*t I've heard from Trina, Kim, Khia, and a host of other freaky women...

Anyhow...

I need to get to a movie...

But ya'll need to chill out. i wouldn't have posted this article AHH...

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BKLYNS-FINEST — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 15:56:36 GMT

This is going to be a banger for sure, I heard worse and most of the females frontin like they don't like it is on their ipods already, it is sexist, degrading and whatnot but fact is alot of females don't even have dignity or self respect

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Kappagem — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 15:59:31 GMT

Oh...I know what I meant to say...

I read an article YEARS ago that was talking about how Ray J was bangin' Blood. I don't know that he was PIRU like SUGE, but he was hangin' tough with Suge Knight earlier this decade. Said this lil niccah actually got jumped in and everything. Real talk.

Again, he could have been fabricating some sh*t, but he been "bangin" blood for a MINUTE now...

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kash girlz n carz — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 16:06:45 GMT

@ bknewstash

if u aint from cali or dont kno much about ray jay he from carson california that whole city is pretty much bloods. Dats who he affiliates wit i been hearing bout dis way back in 2000 way before it was coo to be a blood or gang banginer.

Now wayne on the other hand.................................dats another story.

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Dalyarogue — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 16:14:37 GMT

nah, i don't think this garbage is gonna be played in the club. The song isn't even good. SMH at ray jay, and i bet you girls will still buy this album or w/e.

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kgm1985 — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 16:29:26 GMT

Cabana da Don said:
LMAO allhiphop.com made this shit a hit.lol.The funny thing is that this nigga is just telling the truth.You know hoes are trowing him the pussy lol.This is too funny.You know this is going to be a club banger lol.This is a wild song but I heard worse rap songs(eminem).

KOTTIN313 said:
You can tell Wayne wrote that for him lol Ray J aint that dirty listen to how he delivers it Wayne all day guess wayne ghost writes too

first to the don, i co-sign with what you said. ive heard worse but damn. why put him on blast like that? ray-j has always tried to make something out of nothin with his career. it wont work dawg! if AHH can sit down and talk to ray-j for me please tell him that music isnt his thing and to stick with pornos! that could really be a good career for him. it damn sure got more buzz than any of his music (other than one wish).

to kottin, if wayne wrote that then he should retire too. that song was garbage! period! i wont disrespect wayne by saying he was even affiliated with this trash even though i dont respect wayne AS A LYRICIST either.

AREA 911 coming to your ears 01-01-2009 do the math and cop the joint!

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KOSBEATZ — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 16:55:54 GMT

MAN I'VE HEARD WAY WORSESONGS THAN THIS I THINK DUDE IS REALLY BLOWIN THIS UP ... THERE WASN'T MUCH CREATIVITY IN THE SONG AND WE ALL KNOW RAY J CAN'T SING BUT O WELL IF YOU A FREAK YOU A FREAK

http://www.myspace.com/kos39

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Mr.Marcus — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 16:57:08 GMT

Do ya thang, homie.

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Asher "Black Bomb" Sommer — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 17:21:04 GMT

@ Nia B (the person that wrote the article)

I think this is a Hip-Hop site.

This kinda lyrics were always part of
the music since Luke and da 2 Live Crew
happened.
Better listen to some Hip-Hop music before
u write. I'm tired of these I miss the good
dayz writers, who never listened to any lyrics.

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Nia B — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 17:30:35 GMT

OK OK...The Chronic did drop in 92', my bad! I'll take that one. But don't act like that cd wasn't still bangin' in ya disc changer in 94'. And I'm no feminist. But Lil' Ray J was wrong for this one. Just because other artists clown and disrespect women doesn't mean he has to jump on the bandwagon. Yes, his music has been full of misogny up until this point, but this song takes it too far!

@ mightydog...No I'm not from NY, so I hadn't heard this song until recently. But I did get the mp3 from my NY folks. If this was and underground joint, it should come as no surprise some folks are hearing this for the first time.

And I've become somewhat immune to the misogny in music, but I still bug out when I hear songs like this that are EXTREMELY and OVER THE TOP!

Live in Chicago,

Nia B

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Nia B — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 17:35:54 GMT

@ Asher - I listen to lyrics. What are you talking about? This is a Hip-Hop site, Yes. But this section is ALTERNATIVES. Do you know what ALTERNATIVE means?? That means we cover beyond Hip-Hop in this section.

You talk about reading, maybe you should try it before you attempt to clown on me next time kiddo! ( :

And I'm aware of 2 Live Crew lyrics. Just because I didn't reference them doesn't mean I don't know about em'.

Live in Chicago,

Nia B

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odeisel — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 17:44:33 GMT

And NOW the fun begins lol.

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poe — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 17:52:58 GMT

lol @ this shit

http://www.myspace.com/musiqjunkyproductions

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Nia B — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 17:53:57 GMT

LOL@ Odeisel....hehehehehe!

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vega_diamond — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 18:01:43 GMT

LMFAO!!!!!!!!!!

this dude is wild, but he's not lying..lol there are plenty of chicks out there like that..lol

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mr.201973 — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 18:30:33 GMT

damn shame anyway check this
http://www.zshare.net/audio/501093412b30b77d/

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Doobies Ashtray — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 18:42:21 GMT

this is the first ray j song ive heard that i liked

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Im_African — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 18:47:05 GMT

I never undersand the arguments for misogyny in songs like this. People say well theres been worse songs and people have been making misogynistic songs for years. Okay.... Does that make this particular song any better?? You cant talk about anything else like that. You cant rob a bank and expect not to get in trouble because people have robbed banks in the past and stole more money. IF its a misogynistic song its a misogynistic song, Old songs dont make this one any better OR any more acceptable!

There is a problem with songs full of lyrics that degrade women like this. At one part of the song he said every girl at his concert is a hoe, Everyone of them. So thru this song Ray is tryin to say EVERY WOMAN is a slut, hoe, bitch etc...

I have a huge problem with songs like this. We degrade our women but yet we ask other people to treat us with respect. Women are the cornerstone of the Black community so if we destroy and degrade Black women we destroy and Degrade ourselves and our entire community. Its our responsibility as listners not to purchase/support songs like this and to support songs that empower women. Young folks and some older folks need to learn to respect our women or were going to continue to suffer as a community. If we dont step our game up as a community and stand up against this hatred of women we all are going to suffer, shit we already do suffer because of it. Look at how many single mothers there are in our community becuase as men we have NO respect for women and think we dont need to stay with our childs mother. Its through lack of respect for women that we do not value relationships, Its through Lack of respect and the sexual degredation of women that we no longer show strong family values and think of women merely as Sex objects.

So I do think this song and songs like this only make a growing problem in our community worse. This song is disgusting and everyone co-signing this song needs to really understand the impact misogyny has on the Black community.

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GamezPOG — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 18:49:54 GMT

Nia B:

Where were you when Plies came out w/ his music? I guess his lyrics were more acceptable, right?

Where was the outrage?

Thought so.

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thirdrayle — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 18:51:57 GMT

nina b. it sound like u mad cuz he talkin bout u

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MissDallasTx214 — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 18:59:51 GMT

Ugh this was gross and very disrespectful, little peanut head ass!!! Does he think he'll get a G card by coming out with this garbage ass song?!? Dude you are still a lame and now your fanbase which was mainly females are men wishing they were probably won't even buy your records....way to go Moesha's lil bro, hope your mother was proud when she heard it, if she heard it!

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brazzknucka — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 19:03:58 GMT

ok really what type of shit is that? i mean i done heard songs about pimpin and not givin two fucks about bitches, but really though this shit is gar-bage. i know it aint nothin different from the popcorn i dont give a fuck about a bitch records, but damn ray j advance yo swagga. this is horrible.

but true, someway somehow this is gonna be something everyone is gonna want to download and play in they ipod. i cant stand that anything can make the radio these days

YAY AREA STAND UP!

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Nia B — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 19:04:56 GMT

hahaha @ thirdrayle...

Hey... all i did was say how i felt about this song.

ray j is the focus!

@GamezPOG

I am no Plies fan...he's not right either!

Live in Chicago,

Nia B

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MissDallasTx214 — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 19:15:45 GMT

lmao Im confused, I mean first dude was talking bout snakes in the grass then he starts talking bout anal sex?!? WTF was he high when he recorded this track?!? It doesn't even make any sense, damn I let someone else listen to it just now and they busted out laughing, we're all gonna laugh at you like Carrie!

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tbradley — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 19:17:59 GMT

only God can judge that man.... not really my type of track tho

www.myspace.com/tbradley123

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RGotti — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 19:57:39 GMT

You can't be serious Nia B. I don't like the song & Ray J's not really talented to me, but he didn't say anything that has never been said before in a song. This is like a feminist watching a porno and then being shocked & offended at what she saw even though she knew it was coming (no pun intended). You're so offended by the song that you decide to write an article about & post the song online to expose it to millions of people that probably would have never heard it? Makes sense...

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RGotti — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 20:05:23 GMT

@ Im_African:
Look at how many single mothers there are in our community becuase as men we have NO respect for women and think we dont need to stay with our childs mother.

I agree that Black men need to step and do what they need to do for their children, I can't argue about that, but why don't women take the initiative to prevent unwanted pregnancies with dudes that aren't about sh*t? It's not impossible to prevent pregnancy. We all know women who have a new baby everytime they get a new boyfriend. Why aren't women looking out for their own best interests?

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goodmusicjunkie — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 20:06:52 GMT

this cat ray j makes me sick...he falls in to the lil faggot category wit yung berg...clown ass!!!

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El Terrible — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 20:09:47 GMT

2 Things.

1) If you lsiten to it, his voice sounds different, like it was recorded when he was younger; and then remixed to make it sound up to date.

2) The guy lacks the talent of his contemporaries, let's be honest, if it wasn't for the KK sex tape and the headline of this post, how many of us would have even visited the page?

The kid better cash in whilst he can and invest that money wisely, because many more talented artists have wound up in the gutter when they've passed their peak.

Epic Fail Ray J!

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Nia B — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 20:11:14 GMT

LMBAO@ goodmusicjunkie!!

hahahhahahahaha

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WhitneynStevie — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 20:15:31 GMT

WACK-A-DOCIOUS!!!! I mean I can imagine someone like Snoop saying some of those lines but its so obvious that is a square tryna be hard. We gotta another Yung Berg on our hands people. I forsee him getting jacked for his sh*t cuz its sooooo obvious that he is soooo not gangster. Like dude you were raised in Beverly Hills and got good ass parents. Like your sister been carrying yo a$$ financially for years and put you on. It doesnt make since. Im not that pissed off about the songs references because I know that Im not that type of female and guys dont sing/rap about chicks that dont exist. Some chicks put themselves out there so all the bloody sluts that give it up for free thats who's he addressing. Ray J man, the R&B game is wide the f*ck open these days, why stoop so low?

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Nia B — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 20:17:30 GMT

@ R Gotti

I write this column based on songs I like or don't like.

That's my perogative...

Its all about what I feel like talking about. Freedom of expression. I was just surprised by Ray J, that's all. Didn't see
it coming.

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Sovietnam — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 20:19:20 GMT

i like the article better now that Nia B spoke up for herself.

nothing but respect.

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AJRICH — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 20:19:46 GMT

Chuuch

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SO_SINISTA — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 20:35:03 GMT

SNAKE PIT STAND UP... THIS SONG DOES SUC THO... MYSPACE.COM/Y2KDG

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Doc.Dangeruz — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 20:39:20 GMT

this cat is the definition of a wanksta! foo u grew up in Carson! jus like lil wayne who grew up in music, when did u get gangsta. jus cuz u pay gangsta niggas for ur security dont mean u in the streets.

somebody pleez pull his card.

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RGotti — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 20:54:35 GMT

Nia B said:
@ R Gotti

I write this column based on songs I like or don't like.

That's my perogative...

Its all about what I feel like talking about. Freedom of expression. I was just surprised by Ray J, that's all. Didn't see
it coming.

All of that is true, but you're helping Ray J more than you're hurting him. You probably weren't trying to "hurt" him, just trying to express your opinion which you have every right to do, but in doing so you just gave Brandy's lil bro extra exposure and provided access to a horrible song. But as you stated, that's you're perogative.

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kingcharles — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 20:59:22 GMT

HATERS I dont even like dude but so what. nobody respects women nowadays not even women.

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TonyMalibu — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 21:07:41 GMT

Ray J is a joke. Nobody takes him seriously. When was the last time Musiq, Robin Thicke, Babyface, etc released a porn tape? When was the last time they released a mixtape or promo music? Exactly, point proven. If Ray J had real talent and could blow like an Usher or write music like a Ne-Yo, he wouldn't have to stoop so low. This song is all he has to offer. It's actually kinda sad.

Still, this was about as bad as him singing "I'mma take this broomstick and shove it in his asshole!" Speaking of which, Ray J seems to be quite fascinated with sticking things in asses.

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Nia B — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 21:18:05 GMT

@R Gotti...it is what it is!

Lil Ray J is always gonna be Lil Ray J.

And I wasn't looking to hurt him by writing his.
Remember, I wanna slap the shit out of him!

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Premiumplus — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 21:21:36 GMT

This is ray j's best track next to that weed one with snoop. thanks for promoting it...

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Nia B — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 21:22:06 GMT

Since we are talking about Ray J on this level...I wonder what motivated him to hit Whitney Houston??

I don't think I can say I know any cats that would f*ck with her like dat.

Just a random thought....

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RGotti — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 21:28:24 GMT

Nia B said:
Since we are talking about Ray J on this level...I wonder what motivated him to hit Whitney Houston??

I guess it was the first time he didn't have to pay the crackhead to s*ck his d*ck...

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Cabana da Don — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 22:07:30 GMT

@Nia B

I must confess I would never make a song like this.I wouldn't be able to go outside and look in my neighbors face(females) if that they found out it was me who did it.BUT Ray J is just telling the truth.If there was no hoes this song would never come out.Whats wrong with him not wanting to fuck a girl in her period or not wanting to be around her?People always advice me to stay away from TPM craszy type females.I just wouldn't put it that way.Can't you ignore the ignorant shit?Nia you B you too pretty to be b.s you aint that mad.If Ray J apologized to you personally and sended you flowers you would be the next one on tape.

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unbiased — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 22:09:59 GMT

Knew it wouldn't take long for some fake internet crips to chime in about Ray J.'s blood affiliation. It's more realistic that he's a real blood, than it is that Young Jeezy's a real crip. I guess you gotta be a gangsta rapper to be excused for fake gangbangin'!

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unbiased — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 22:17:32 GMT

Also Nia B,

I think the vulgar lyrics and such, just stand out to you because he is a "singer"/Brandy's lil brother, etc...because "rappers" make songs like these all day/every day, and nobody says nothin'.

If you haven't noticed, Ray J. has taken on a new persona, so these type of songs should come as no surprise, it's actually his niche now! It's pretty much what people expect out of him, not get caught off guard by.

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Im_African — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 22:46:08 GMT

@RGotti

Basically Sex is a two way street so if women have to look at for their best interest so do men. At the moment maybe children were created because the man wanted to go raw and the woman thought there was more in their relationship than there actually was. TRUTH is its both a woman and a man's responsibility so I cant just co-sign what u were sayin. A woman should protect herself but men have to step there game up as well.

And this Ray-J song is lame...

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canarydon — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 23:11:50 GMT

This song is sooo old came out last year...but it is funny

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late19832001 — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 23:17:49 GMT

Im feeling this Ray-J song.... For all those females out there that feel disrespected, need to let that go... If you arent a bitch or a hoe, then you shouldnt worry about it... Its the sameway on how the ladies get on us when either trina, lil kim, khia and the rb ladies be talking trash about us guys... Im not going to lie, i get mad when the females have those song like,"If I was a boy" shit or, "niggas aint shit" but I cant let that get to me because i know they arent talking about me... So for all those ladies hurt over this song, get over it...

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King_Phe-Nix — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 23:19:30 GMT

yo that joint funny....ray j passed out cuz that aint him i think but it might be....i doubt it tho....

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holyfool22 — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 23:22:34 GMT

Oh this stuff that's from that wack Uncut mixtape he put out where he's acting like a gang member and some fake pimp/player. But wasent he on Sinbad or something you cant really act like some tough thug when you where on Sinbad or put out One Wish.

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justbeinme — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 23:24:10 GMT

I put Ray J in the same category as Omarion and Bow Wow, a bunch of bitches who think they are pimps but if they werent musicians they woulg get there 5 ft 2 bitch asses knocked the fuck out by a woman!!! And further more I have a daughter if anyone said anything remotely disrespectful like that I would bitch slap him!!! I agree that there are some scandalous woman out there but dont categorize all them as hoes!! Most woman deserve respect so GAY-J get your ass in check or get it out of Omarions mouth.............

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Musiclover79 — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 23:27:39 GMT

What woman considers this flattering?

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nonononot — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 23:37:53 GMT

This song was obviously done in jest, not to mention dude sounds like he been drinking or something, and someone close to him got it and leaked it. The friggin song isn't even recorded well. I do music; I've done stupid ass songs, not to release but to laugh at. It's not Ray J who's at fault here, it's whoever is trying to ruin him. Did this song come from his label... or did it mysteriously surface on the internet oooooo. Gimmie a break.

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holobeatz/inc — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 23:40:39 GMT

this shit is wack as hell. Ray, I hope you read allhiphop and see that you a wack ass nigga for this song. nothing original, nothing at all. maybe you out there getting it, but damn, make some real music...if you can

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DJ_SHONA — Sun, 26 Oct 2008 23:56:37 GMT

smh at this niggadry.....

turned the garbage off after i heard "pretty little cunt"

whut the hell is wrong with the world?

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Ms175Jeezy#1Fan — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 00:01:21 GMT

THANK YOU!!!!! That sex tape was not even great. I'm finally glad that others are realizing that fact. Also Ray has always sucked as an artist so this crap isn't suprising.

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JBishop — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 00:03:00 GMT

This boy crazy!!!

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Cmacjb — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 00:05:36 GMT

@ Nia B
Ray jay anit shit so why you care what he says in his music? Nigga anit gona blow up with any hot records or go platinum so like I said Ray J anit shit so who cares what nigga says.

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BIG GUSTER — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 00:08:49 GMT

Thats what they get for giving his wack ass a pass on them bullshit songs!!!

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GamezPOG — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 00:53:28 GMT

Nia B:

an excerpt from Plies "Shawty"

Gotta Train Her, Now She Suck Me With Ice
I Call Her My Lil Bust It Baby Cause She Keep It Tight
Whenever I Tell Her To Bust, Aint Gotta Tell Her Twice
Whenever I Wanna Get Off She Know How To Get Me Right [I}

It's important to view all disparging remarks, by artist against women, as disrespectful and unacceptable. You think that Back men would honor and respect our women more.. I know ML King and Malcolm X would be turning in their graves if they heard some of the filth being spit by Black rappers towards our women.

I understand that Ray J's lyrics are utterly disrespectful; nonetheless, there are a ton of artist (such as Piles) who has made a career on disrespecting women and no one calls him or other artist on it.

This is preceisly why female rappers have a difficult time because females don't even have a level of sistahood among themselves.

So when someone comes out wiht hurtful lyrics like this, people aren't surprised.

My question is...what took so long?

And where are the other female artist and thir outrage?

I'm waiting to see what happens.....

(BTW......nice article ma)

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Nia B — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 01:00:20 GMT

@ Cabana Da Don

It would take more than an apology and some flowers to get me on tape. LOL
______________________

And I keep hearing this song is like a year old. Yeah it is!
But that doesn't take away the fact that Ray J put it out.

He needs to stay in his lane...this type of song is something a rapper might do, not a "R&B" singer. Especially someone as soft as Ray J.

Live in Chicago,

Nia B

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Nia B — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 01:02:41 GMT

Thanks GamezPoz...Appreciate that! ( :

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hasheesh — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 01:09:06 GMT

Ray J is wack as fuck, His songs are generic, and he will do or say anything to stay in the spotlight. It's sad that bitches will stay dance to this shit in the club cuz most of em only listen to beats with they dumb ass. Then they complain about not being respected.

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tbradley — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 01:12:56 GMT

i bet if this was a gospel song he was singing he wouldnt have got all these comments.....

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Gemini205 — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 02:26:29 GMT

This song is definitely disgusting and disrespectful in my opinion. It's crazy to see excuses saying there's other songs like this, well no shit Sherlock. Controversial songs have always existed, but that doesn't make this particular song any less tasteless than it already it is. However, I'm not all that suprised that Ray J would make a song like this. He's been doing a lot crazy things for years out of shock value and attention. It is what it is with Ray J as far as I'm concerned. I disagree with Nia B saying that Brandy should say something to him. What can she do? He's a grown man. I'm sure her and even their parents probably tried to talk some sense into him before, but obviously it hasn't work yet. They can only do so much, and it's up to him in the end to decide what he wants to do. I pesonally think Ray J now knows no one really takes him seriously as a singer, actor, or whatever else he tries to be, so he has developed this I don't give a damn attitude.

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KatEye — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 02:41:43 GMT

This song is so boo it's not even funny. I don't care if Ray J wasn't the first to say dumb sh-- about women on tape, that doesn't make it any more acceptable. I wonder how Brandy feels.

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KatEye — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 02:41:56 GMT

and tell em why you mad Nia! LOL

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TruthSeeker55 — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 02:49:09 GMT

Mad funny.

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lchelle125 — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 03:18:25 GMT

This song should have been under "signs the world is ending." My ears are bleeding!!! He went from Disney Channel to this.

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delvec001 — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 03:25:45 GMT

That wasnt Ray J sing that...
It was Brandy's brother...

This song was hot !!!

HOT GARBAGE !!!

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Cabana da Don — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 03:33:02 GMT

@Nia B

So you would be on a tape?hummm.Contradiction at best ohh fuck it I do it everyday.I see you Nia.

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Nia B — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 03:49:58 GMT

@Cabana da Don

Being on tape is not my cup of tea. I will never give anyone that type of ammunition to put my business in the streets. But then again, look what it did for Kim K! I wouldn't mind a reality show. ( :

LOL

Live in Chicago,

Nia B

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beatbidderscom — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 04:04:07 GMT

This kid needs some post Kim K attention. This is too good not to post on my site.

www.beatbidders.com

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ES FLY BOY — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 04:59:58 GMT

the message in it is true even though the song weak. its more hoes out there then real women. put money in front of a person & you will be surprised at how weak most peoples souls are.

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MARTDOGG17351 — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 05:05:15 GMT

This song is whaaack as FUCK! This can't be Ray-J (not that I like his shit anyway)!!!! Sounds like some impostor shit. The production is sum bullshit for starters. And then, the lyrics are fuckin' garbage too! Not that it's on sum fuck-a-bitch shit, cuz I'm cool with that, it's just that this nigga had no wordplay on that shit. I mean, seriously, this shit sounds like a bootleg or sumthin'. Is this a joke or some shit?!@#$% I think someone else put that shit out there, frontin' like they were Gay-J. Hmmmm.... If this is really him, then he just needs to retire from the game permanently. Ray-J went from hitting bomb-ass Kim K. to fuckin' with ol' cracked-out Whitney. And this fool is acting like he's proud of that shit too... lol... Dude went from a 10 to like a 3-4ish and that's me just being courteous to Whitney since she's done platinum, cuz I wouldn't give her that shit otherwise. And that's also a direct reflection of his music career too. Went from radio to this bullshit. Nigga is fallin' off, seriously. Nigga is in the slow lane, fallin' asleep, bout to fly off the embankment. This song is like a nail in the coffin for this nigga!!!! What the fuck was this nigga thinkin'?!@#$%^&*............... Anyway, wussup Nia, when you gon' let me hit that? =)

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tr3y420 — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 05:24:14 GMT

lmao! do it in the butt !!!!! i dont give a fuck yea!

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michela — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 05:32:37 GMT

Noooooo he didn't, wow. He is feeling himself a bit much.

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reallifemusic — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 06:30:40 GMT

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GoDzSoN — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 06:36:45 GMT

as much as i dont like ghey-j. I think the whole purpose of the song was what the title says "snakes in the grass". if a chick is a gold digger and wants to get laid to get closer to the pockets then yeah i would consider that a snake in the grass. And apparently he likes to smash those chicks lol

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GoDzSoN — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 06:40:07 GMT

oh yeah, is it me or does he sound like Rielly from the Boondocks at the beginning of the song LOL

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AshY-LarrY — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 07:20:04 GMT

fuck all yall haters (aside from the menstrual reference...) this songs a bangerrrrr!

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AshY-LarrY — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 07:20:23 GMT

str8 pimpalating!

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AshY-LarrY — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 07:25:12 GMT

no wonder the " Bleeding/bloody week" quote was mentioned - this column was written by a chick! Real talk, if u aint a scandalous/gold-digging chick , nor are a Over-promiscious chick .........this track shouldnt offend u. look at the titlle "snake in the grass" , its obviously about suspect females! i cant hate on the brutha for making this track.........

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THA VIDDLES — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 09:45:33 GMT

fuck dat, DIS MA ANTHEM!

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Im Like God To You Niggas — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 10:02:20 GMT

MAKE SURE ITS NOT YOUR BLOODY WEAK AND STUFF MAKE SURE ITS NOT YOUR BLOODY WEAK YOU SLUUUUUUTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT

This is my new anthem for all females, Ray-J basically summed up every girl in this song way to go my nigga G's Up Hoes Down MOB

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Ripryde — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 10:11:51 GMT

Ain't tryin to vouch for cuzzin but he IS from Piru Hood, but then again, so is Brandy LoL.
Carson L.A. Slob City. He "from" Cabbage Patch Piru aka The Patch. Over there near Avalon Blvd. Yeah corny as hell, but that area used to be a real cabbage patch back in the day. Same hood as John the Raisin bka Rass Kass.

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2pacsoldier5084 — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 11:01:08 GMT

This song is HOT!!!!!!!!!!!! Thank you Nia! Now I know the last song to put on my next burned cd!!!!!!!!!

Nia....where were you when Trina and Khia were dropping their
"sexist" songs? It's just music, stop your whining! After all, do you realize how many hoes are out there? A hoe to me is a woman with a man or husband that is STILL suckin and f**kin niggas off. Maybe you live in planet Purple land, but in Earth, hoes exist! As long as hoes exist, 50, Plies, and other similar artists will always get play.

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Water Ur Seeds — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 11:06:55 GMT

lol bias article??? i think its directed at the superheads of the world, but considering most his fans are female it might not be the best move... the track is cool tho lmao saying that ray been loved up with real hoes like the superhead (name says it all) kim and kim so he just pimp slapped himself haha, he need to quit with that blood shit, banging blood dont mean u just hang out with suge and know of sum gs, its means puttin in work and actually bangin... otherwize people like eminen can say the bang crip coz hes friends with snoop

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keepitculture — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 13:30:32 GMT

i think this dude done lost his marbles!!!!!!!! seems like hes on the road to pull an R. KELLY somewhere down the line, i hate to say it but, theres gonna be a girl out there that set his lil freaky ass up, and next thing you know his ass is in court on some your honor i was just too damn horny.... i dont think this is a good look seriously

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Savy_Da_Boss — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 13:45:11 GMT

NIA B whats good!! Chit town reppin!! Didnt know you was a writer!

This is when henny meets no talent @ the studio fresh from the strip club.

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Killuminati 187 — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 14:32:02 GMT

this is my ssshhiitttt LOL!!!

I got a question for Nia...

So it's okay for Jasmine Sullivan to say she'll bust the windows out my car? But it's not okay for Ray J to say "Bitch I don't give a fuck"?? I don't think so.

Anthem.

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Nia B — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 15:03:06 GMT

@ MARTDOGG17351 - Did u ask me when you can hit? Don't make me start in on you. Please don't.

@ Savy_Da_Boss - Chi Town stand up!

@ Killuminati 187 - Jazmine Sullivan's "Bust Your Windows" was not Sunday Selection, Ray J's "Snake in The Grass" is. Jazmine's song is a whole different can of worms. Saying...“Make sure it’s not your bloody week, you slut,” is nothing compared to busting out windows.

Windows can be replaced, being disrespectful like that...there is a difference and you know that just as well as I do.

If you look at the history of Hip-Hop...Men have been talking greasy in their music way before women even thought about it.

We can take it back to 87' when I listened to Too Short for the first time in my walkman. At that moment I realized that people could say some crazy things in their music. And I was a little girl then.

Here I am almost 20 years later still hearing the same misogny. When will the madness end??!!!

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grealrb — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 15:22:41 GMT

Ray J is a lost soul right now. Dude got talent but he ain't usin it! I liked him when he first came out years ago with "let it go" now he just bullshittin and wildin out like LIL Bow Wow! Theres a way to get your freaky point accross without being too disrespectful! Them days are over!

Check me out at www.myspace.com/grealrb

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Mr.GoodBrother — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 15:27:07 GMT

No Comment... And coming from me that's saying a lot... Word Up!

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Gold Mind — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 15:50:23 GMT

this nigga garbage. this off that mixtape i think from last year when he was dissin b2k. he had a album release party and all that for this wack shit. this aint shockin at all comin from this attention whore fool. this wont be no club banger cuz if it was then it woulda already been gettin play last year by now.

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Killuminati 187 — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 16:13:45 GMT

@Nia B

There is no level of sin, bustin' out windows is just as bad as sayin' "make sure it's not your bloody week you slut", so Ray-J is doing nothing worse than what that Jazmine bitch is doin', and yes, I call Jazmine Sullivan a BITCH 'cause only Bitches bust windows out a car like a coward, if a bitch bust my windows out I will hunt her down and take a brick to her face, I don't play vandalism. There's nothing you can tell me that will make "busting out windows" okay, you got a problem then handle it like a fuckin' adult, not a little hood rat.

You just feel offended by the Ray-J song obviously, but why get offended if you're not the SLUT he's talkin' about? Are you the girl he fucked in the butt behind Pizza Hut? Didn't think so. There's more BITCHES in this world than there are LADIES, and I understand you aren't in the "bitch" category Nia, so back up and let him lash out at all the women who deserve to be called bitches, he's not talkin' about you so what's your issue? Yet you say you would SLAP Ray-J for makin' this? Only a BITCH would try to slap me over a damn song I made that wasn't even talkin' about her ass...THAT'S more ignorant than the SONG is.

CONCLUSION: There will always be bitches, and there will always be good women. If you're a good woman then this song shouldn't bother you, you should be laughin' at the way he's talkin' about these snake bitches. If you're a snake bitch, you'll find this Ray-J song offensive. Point blank, if you're not a bitch/hoe/cunt/slut, then you're NOT who he's talkin' about, so stop cryin'.

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aneed123 — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 16:33:52 GMT

how u gonna get mad at this song, I bet half of yall mad were dancing in the club to my neck my back, the whisper song or bust it baby..... Women love these nasy vulgar songs. So u cant pick and choose. Either all of them are bad or...

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Killuminati 187 — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 16:35:26 GMT

"And Brandy, you need to check your brother. Yeah he’s grown, but a song like this shows his immature side and lack of respect for women."

Are you out of your fuckin' mind?

Lack of respect for WOMEN?? What you're failing to understand is he's not disrespecting WOMEN, he's disrespecting BITCHES that can't keep their legs closed. A good WOMAN knows better than to do hoe shit. Bitches need to be talked to like that so they'll clean their fuckin' act up. We all know what the difference between a Lady and a Bitch is, and you're making it seem like he's just lashing out at innocent women with this song, that's complete bullshit.

And for your little smart ass comment you spoke out the side of your mouth...I don't need you to tell me what the Sunday Selection is after I just read your entire article lashing out at Ray-J because he made ONE song disrespecting bitches and hoes. Fuck it, if you wanna take offense to this song and throw yourself in the "Hoe" category and say "OH NO HE DIDN'T!!!!" then go ahead. You coulda been a lady about it and just said "there's too much cussin'.." and pressed the Stop button instead of wiggin' out like the sky is fallin' on your face.

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Nia B — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 16:38:56 GMT

@ Killuminati 187 - I know Ray J is not talking about me, but at the same time if Ray J will say this about a woman, what makes me exempt from being called that even if I'm not a slut or bitch? I hear men refer to women that aren't "bitches and hoes" as "bitches and hoes" all the time. This is a never ending conversation...

Look how you are refering to Jazmine Sullivan based on a song she wrote.You don't know her, but yet your calling her a bitch. At what point in your life did you start calling women out their names? Who influenced you to do it? Was it the male influences around you, movies, or Hip-Hop music?

Its all love though Killuminati 187. Thanks for providing your thoughts.

Live in Chicago,

Nia B

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hiphopjunky — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 16:58:05 GMT

WOW!

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Killuminati 187 — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 17:00:23 GMT

@Nia

You know it's all love, u AHH fam just like everybody else.

But since you asked, I've never called women collectively out of their name (meaning I've not once said every woman is a bitch/hoe), just select women who I feel deserve it. To be honest with you, I don't remember the exact first time I called a woman a bitch, but I bet everything I own that she wasn't a nice lady I was just being mean to for no reason.

Example: My ex cheated on me, she's a bitch for that.

Cheating don't fly with me, period point blank. We can co-exist in the same place (say at a party or somethin) but she knows the deal, she a dirty untrustworthy bitch that like to sleep around when she in a relationship, that makes her a Bitch to me. So if I make a song talkin' bout dirty bitches, it's about women like her, not like you...that's why if I were Ray-J I wouldn't expect you to trip like you did.

It's all good tho, gorgeous smile in ya avi btw, Stay up.

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leighe71 — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 17:10:58 GMT

What the Hell!!!!!
This idiot thinks that this is music?
I bet he is somewhere waiting to yell SYKE

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tha clear — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 17:19:54 GMT

When he put Kim K on that mixtape cover that's when I knew he was a damn fool. As for the song if it lost the "bloody week" line I could tolerate it. I've heard worse things from better artists.

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Cabana da Don — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 17:55:45 GMT

@Nia B

Much success to you!!! I understand what you're trying to say.

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BlackPeople 1 — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 17:58:47 GMT

marvin gaye would never do this.

subtlety is class and finesse.
sayin i need "sexual healing" is far more poetic and respectful than sayin -- 'scuse me singin, "the bitches wanna fuck".

our generation of performers are trash.

and don't gimme that you gotta look under the radio or off TV or any of that shit.

the ones that's popular shouldn't even be accepted like this.
what are we gonna do?

maurice white would never sing this.
stevie wonder would never sing this.
smokie robinson would never sing this.
jorge or carlos santana would never sing this.

i think that's the problem.
no musical history.

that's why we accept this hot trash juice.
because there is nothing to contrast it with.

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Cephas — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 18:00:21 GMT

he still brandys lil brother

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ZUBU — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 18:44:03 GMT

Jay Z, Reasonable Doubt:

"To my nigga Sauce I hit you with this advice: Lifes hard, so play hard, stick hard, and only love them when your dick's hard."

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aneed123 — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 18:50:13 GMT

i bet all the women complaining about this love that bust out your windows song to lol....

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plato651 — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 19:23:59 GMT

"Get the money the hoez come with the shit" - 50 cent
"Back then they didn't want me, now I'm paid and they all on me" -Mike Jones

I am surprised that Nia B would waste this much space on a Ray J article. You can't deny that what he is talking about is very true in regards to a lot of women in this society. With the amount of groupies and gold diggers willing to do anything for fame the song has a lot of merit. Nobody forces these women to perform the sexual acts behind closed doors or on these sex tapes. Generally speaking, integrity is lacking in our culture. In fact, IMO, it is up to the individual to earn respect.

These females that waiting in lines looped around the corner to be on the Flava of Love 4, or in the next rap video are VOLUNTEERING to participate in these roles.

Who are you or me to judge another person putting food on their own plate?

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BlackPeople 1 — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 19:31:32 GMT

plato, we MUST judge.

otherwise we err to savagery.

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BlackPeople 1 — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 19:31:38 GMT

plato, we MUST judge.

otherwise we err to savagery.

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RapItUp — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 21:46:10 GMT

Nia B is beautiful! And Ray-J is pretty lame, as far as trying to come with all this tough, fuck a bitch type, blah-zay.. There are guys that actually live that way (I'm not praising that) And people who don't really understand why some dudes may say fuck a bitch (Compared to some people who many not understand when some women say niggas ain't shit (N.A.S. lmao) But it goes both ways.. I can vibe it, but it could've been done with some more class, maybe something that could've gotten some actual exposure. Savy put it best (henny, strip club, studio LMAO) but it's obvious that he was REALLY vibing himself from shagging Kim K. Women (not all) like niggas with stuipd dough. Even lil wayne funny looking ass got groupies by the bundle. Women are that way, and men should only remind them of how so, in a dignified manner! (Unless you two are alone, this eliminates all slander charges, and tell that bitch how it is!) Good read Nia B, with your gorgeous self.

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BigFameLA — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 22:09:04 GMT

RAY J A "SIMI" HOOD NIGGA...HE CLAIMED CENTERVIEW PIRU BLOODS

BUT HE AINT NO REAL NIGGA, MAINLY CUZZ HE GREW UP WIT LOOT AND AINT NEVER HAD TO BE A REAL NIGGA. GOT MAMA, DADDY, HELL BIG SISTER EVEN PUT HIS ASS ON PAYROLL

AND WE ALL KNOW .......BITCHES LIKE MONEY RAY J, U JUS' NOW REALIZE THAT? WHY THE HELL U THINK KIM KARDASHIAN WAS FUCCIN' YOU.........AND THEN NOW, REGGIE BUSH? SHE A HOE

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Shutup Im talkn — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 23:03:53 GMT

1st thing I got from this article is Nia B sayin she's "seen and done better" and you from my city, we should really holla.
My problem is with the word mysoginist, which means a person with a hatred for women. Im not saying this song and songs like this aren't disrespectful to women, but I highly doubt these guys hate women. Really rap was supposed to be a man's point of view on things without being R&Bish talkin sappy. These songs represent a disgust for women who use us for material gain, not a hatred of women. More than a few of the women I have had sexual relations with, wanted to be fucked hard from behind their hair pulled and their ass slapped, not soft and sentimental the way most R&B songs lead you to believe women want it. Nia baby you may not like these kinds of lyrics, but what happens with you when the lights are off, lets be real we are adults here. The negative ways women are treated and portrayed go deeper than a song. At the same time if a man doesn't know how to treat a woman with respect,(not including what I've said in an attempt to express my desire for the writer of this article), even if she is a hoe or a bitch, then he himself is a bitch.

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Nia B — Tue, 28 Oct 2008 00:37:35 GMT

@RapItUp - thanks babe! ( :

@ Shutup Im talkn - you are the first person to notice that I said..."I've seen and done better!" (blushing). Yeah I said it and I meant it. And as adults - yes, we all get down! But as an adult we should also speak about things with tact and respect as much as possible. Be the bigger person sometimes. Don't always take the "fuck a bitch route" because its the road to no where.

Thanks for the feedback guys.

Live in Chicago,

Nia B

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Shutup Im talkn — Tue, 28 Oct 2008 01:33:03 GMT

You're right sweetheart its not what you say but how you say it, like I said a real man knows how to treat all women with respect even when they're acting like bitches. Don't fret though we gon get it together.

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Nia B — Tue, 28 Oct 2008 01:37:37 GMT

@ Shutup Im talkn - I sure hope so!!

(blushing, cause he called me sweetheart.)

( :

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acemoney009 — Tue, 28 Oct 2008 06:53:33 GMT

best song this nigga ever made

Ray J'z "Snake In The Grass" Diss against women - GotGames.com.au

Anonymous — Tue, 28 Oct 2008 13:34:34 GMT

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stlouisda1st — Tue, 28 Oct 2008 14:13:23 GMT

If a chick come off being something less than a LADY, she gets treated like she is less than a LADY. Act like a lady I have know choice. Wasn't he dating (F**king) lil kim, kim k, & whitney.
That just shows you something about his character, he knew that a relationship is something that they wasn't looking for. Who's next? 18 to 80, dumb cripple or crazy cats toss chicks up all day 24/7 365 RAY-J for PRESIDENT cuz BITCHES AINT SHIT!

CHI-TOWN STANDUP!

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Dra$t-iQ Alkoholik — Tue, 28 Oct 2008 15:47:08 GMT

man fuck y'all this shit is funny he aint like hating all women and calling em ho's he just callin em hos ,"hos". I've heard worse from Plies punk-ass " i gave her anickname it's wet-wet/coz when we done she always messes up on the bed set" he said sum shit like that one his tracks but no one complaining. I've heard kim and Khia's nasty ass spit more disgusting shit than this but y'all aint said shit, this blogger should just shut the fuck up

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adorablep — Tue, 28 Oct 2008 17:20:05 GMT

Wow, Ray J , like that..That song is very disrespectful to women but you will have djs that will give it love. You will have men that feel the way Ray J does that will love this song. It will never make it to my ipod or would I send it to my djs to promote.

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lionesse23 — Tue, 28 Oct 2008 17:32:38 GMT

Okay too many to comment on but i had a few i wanted to say something to.
@ Nia B, I understand the shock value, i even agree with some of what you said. I'm just confused as to why you didnt' realize that Ray J has always been like this??? secondly, he's not the 1st nor the last to do a song like this. In no way does this make it right, but again, where do these guys get the material to come out like this??? Yep from the LADIES. and no i'm not blaming all women, just the sluts, lmao.

@Kgm1985, you hit right on the nail.
@Haughville i agree with all you said.

It's simple, women need to be smarter in who they chose to be freaky with. Secondly, again, women need to be smarter in raising their little girls to have better morals. these songs will continue as long as we have women out there who is doing these things.

and for the record, that tape was garbarge so Tpain and everyone else commenting on that wack bootleg video of Kim and Ray, please. It was awful. Like Nia said, i can do better and seen better. lmao, just teasing there.

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Young BRINK! — Tue, 28 Oct 2008 18:13:43 GMT

If R. Kelly made this song people would eat it up. LOL

http://myspace.com/youngbrink1

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Nia B — Tue, 28 Oct 2008 19:21:25 GMT

@Dra$t-iQ Alkoholik

hmmm...so i should shut the fuck up?

hahaha...your funny kiddo. i didn't ask you to read my column, you chose to.

why be rude to me because i expressed how i felt? after all that's my purpose here.

goodness...LOL

and you write like u have about a 6th grade education anyway, so whatever.

"man fuck y'all this shit is funny he aint like hating all women and calling em ho's he just callin em hos ,"hos".

ok...

But thanks for your feeback!! ( :

Live in Chicago,

Nia B

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YoungBonez — Tue, 28 Oct 2008 20:43:10 GMT

How come the topic is never how women disrespect men in songs every song put a ring on it, bust the windows out ya car, theres alot more I'm just sayin U don't here nigga crying and complaining when she ain't got a ring on it cause she ain't no good every lady shouldn't have a ring ya'll need to stand up for these good niggaz to sometimes, like the women sitting a home while niggaz work all day or are Irag spending this nigga chesse with another man I see it all the time and tell the nigga he can't go out or this or that when he the only person workin C'mon

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Wordizbond — Tue, 28 Oct 2008 22:13:59 GMT

"Ray J how would you feel if one day you had a daughter and a man talked to her the way you conducted yourself in this song?"

^^^ Now this is a good one here! We're always cool and shit until it comes to our children.
Case closed.

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Meka24 — Tue, 28 Oct 2008 22:28:38 GMT

@YoungBonez that sounds like a personal situation.

I personaly can't get offended b/c Ray J does not know me nor do I know Ray J. He talking about those skanks he been with. They the ones they ought to be offended. But the song is wack on a lyrical level fo real. It needs more work like him. Woman don't degrade men nor Men degreed woman they degrade themselves. Everybody know Ray needs attention he been like that since a child. AHH don't promote this man unless he is really trying. RAY & BRANDY are outdated and wack we are in 2008 they gotta come back better then they have.

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prob_limbs — Wed, 29 Oct 2008 07:15:23 GMT

nothing wrong with doing a song with crass talk,just got to have a real point to it,plus if you trying to be a real singer,this is some blowfly and dolemite (rip) shit, thing is tho this song wacc as fucc,the lyrics was ass cheeks yell

www.myspace.com/panhandoelrcorp

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Killuminati 187 — Wed, 29 Oct 2008 15:44:28 GMT

Lol@niggaz tryna go hard on Nia

leave Nia alone, even tho I disagree with her too she is entitled to her opinion.

We love you Nia! :)

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Focused10210 — Wed, 29 Oct 2008 15:52:24 GMT

....And the sad part is dat chicks will actually dance to this stuff when it plays at the club...

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Nia B — Wed, 29 Oct 2008 15:53:22 GMT

@ Killuminati 187 - Thank You!!!

LOVE U TOO! ( :

Live in Chicago,

Nia B

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PRESTO — Wed, 29 Oct 2008 17:41:34 GMT

Yo ... time 4 your sister 2 put on like 20lbs and come out talkin bout sukn dyck n stickin her fingers in ninjas butts ... n drinkin protein shakes like a slut .... oh ... the song was wack ... i dont listen 2 RAPnBULLSHYT anyway ... so dowutchalyke ...

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Im Like God To You Niggas — Thu, 30 Oct 2008 09:17:13 GMT

Black people 1 your not even making sense my dude. Comparing someone like Stevie Wonder to Ray is jus plain ignorant and I doubt you know music since if anything you should be comparing someone like Bobby Brown or Keith Sweat to Ray and they DID have songs like this maybe a lil less vulgar but still

And Nia B before you start coming out your feminist face at dudes like Alkoholik why not stop being a hypocrite first? I mean so its ok for you to express your opinion but not him? And its not ok to be rude to you yet you can say he has the education of a 6th grader like thats not insulting? And he didn't have to read the article but the difference is YOU have a huge forum (AHH) to express your opinion but theres no where to refute or discuss other than the comments. The reason your probably mad is because this songs IS about girls like you, all on there period (make sure its not your bloody weak you slut) hating the world one day but be out Saturday grindin on the closest thug nigga they can find to "Bust It Baby" and in the end thats so lameeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

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Nia B — Mon, 17 Nov 2008 22:34:04 GMT

@Im Like God To You Niggas

Nice. Real Nice!

Thanks for the response. ( :