Straight Talk: The Other Woman

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Boss Up — Thu, 24 Jan 2008 19:16:30 GMT

Miasha must've got cheated on

and this article is confusing...who are u writing this for? the wife or the ho on the side?

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Divababy — Thu, 24 Jan 2008 19:25:56 GMT

Thank you! It needed to be said and I'm glad you said it. You're right. We get into routines and then complain about this and that. Well I'm taking your advice and becoming the other woman for my man. It'll be a nice surprise for him and a nice change for me too! Hell we all need to step out the box and do some freaky shyt every now and then. I'm too young to feel old so its time to make that move and spice up my life. Thank you from one married woman to another. You spoke the truth just like we needed to hear it.

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KISSTHEMADAM — Thu, 24 Jan 2008 19:39:53 GMT

Honey you are 100% right! Allllll that stuff works bc I do it consistently! Surprises, role playing, planning dates, wearing different looks always keeps thing fresh! Im checking your website bc you are definitely speaking the truth! I was the "other woman" or what I call "The Fun One" for yearssss...I mean yearsss...I figured that way there were no attachments and it seemed the men liked being with me more than their wives or girlfriends so I had the best of both worlds! Now that I had the practice of being "The Fun One" I am THAT woman and the wife!

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Network_Engineer — Thu, 24 Jan 2008 20:04:06 GMT

Miasha is right on the money. My brother has had these very issues with his wife. I try to tell her, what ever you won't do the next woman will....

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c_a_k — Thu, 24 Jan 2008 20:15:56 GMT

I agree with what is being said!!!!!! This article isn't per seh for the "Other Woman" but that "Other Woman" in you. The only way tp keep a relationship going is to spice it up for ya man. Let me just say that i've been with my man for 8 years now. So, i've become "ALL THE WOMAN" he wants and needs.

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MACCAPONE — Thu, 24 Jan 2008 20:43:22 GMT

COOL KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK......

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diar6969 — Thu, 24 Jan 2008 20:53:09 GMT

If a man isn't "worth it" then why is she even in the relationship. Most women will see "worth it" and think that means only do these things if he's already doing all of that and more for her. Then it becomes a game of who is going to go first.

Basically, if he's worth staying with, he is worth the effort.

That said, your advice is on point. But if woman is acting new she has to also be willing to let her man act brand new with her. For instance, if she is normally against dirty talk, she should loosen the rules when playing the mistress role and let her man say some things if he's so inclined.

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mellimell3 — Thu, 24 Jan 2008 20:58:56 GMT

Boss Up your like 19 or 20? This article is not for you homey. Be glad your still young because in a few years this will make too much sense to you.

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beatbrothersproduction — Thu, 24 Jan 2008 21:07:09 GMT

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beatbrothersproduction — Thu, 24 Jan 2008 21:11:01 GMT

@BOSS UP

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T.Mill — Thu, 24 Jan 2008 21:20:31 GMT

I agree. However, we men sometimes get comfortable and boring too sometimes and push our lady " 2 shop around. Gotta stay fresh and keep your mates interest. It's never an excuse but 2 bad it is a cause. Boring keeps you snoring, don't sleep or get creeped on.

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Deuce Bigalow — Thu, 24 Jan 2008 22:07:48 GMT

Feels good to be a man. Stupid bitches EXCITED about being the other woman. "Kissthemadam", I hate to tell you but your man still cheating on you. Its called Karma so you can play the other woman or have 30 more personalities if you want but your man still cheating! In the words on Terrance Howard on the THE BEST MAN: "It's Kharma, baby!"

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DEEP EAST OAKLAND P — Thu, 24 Jan 2008 22:29:57 GMT

OMG!! that was a good ass read.I guess some women out there get it.We put waaaay more work into a relationship then yall do and most of yall don't even notice.All she saying is to realize this and do the same sometimes.Real talk, you women are like a rubics cube.Once you think you've got it figured out you notice that one sides off.Us dudes are simple, it doesn't take much to keep us satisfied lol.

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K.A.K. DEUCE — Thu, 24 Jan 2008 22:55:38 GMT

This chick's man was probably up in his "other" chick while she was typin up this bullish!

GTFOH!

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HIPHOP! — Fri, 25 Jan 2008 01:54:11 GMT

Good read. shit was confusing at first but i caught on a lil faster than Boss up.lol

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Musiclover79 — Fri, 25 Jan 2008 02:23:26 GMT

Wow @ the disses to some good advice.

Ironically I doubt we will ever see an article about "the Other man". LOL

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RedDeezo — Fri, 25 Jan 2008 02:34:02 GMT

a man is never supposed to be with one women....NEVER. you cant tell me one male creature on this earth, other than humans, that stay with the female. I can just imagine how stressed a nigga is just being wit one woman. I know women think that one day they could be that everything. And you know what 1 out of every 10 might be, but for the normal nigga, they gone get tired of that same thang after a year or shorter. i wouldn't give a damn if you Beyonce....And just because a nigga got another lady doesn't mean he ain't no good, it just mean in order for him to do right he need something you might not accept (that other women)...lol

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SUNLARGE — Fri, 25 Jan 2008 04:26:16 GMT

man red deez, you just wrote the realest shit out of anybody on here. no man wants to be with just one women. maybe 1 out of 50 might. i dont think its natural for a man to be with one women. it's like men are scared to just come out and say it. probably because women will never understand it. i dont know any of my married frinds who haven't fucked around. and just because a man fucks around on a women doesn't mean he doesn't love her. he just need some new puss. ha.

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Just_In — Fri, 25 Jan 2008 05:32:23 GMT

@RedDeezo/SunLarge
Lol, sad but real as m'fucker

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RedDeezo — Fri, 25 Jan 2008 05:58:57 GMT

im tryna to tell. As long as you strap up and have safe sex, ain't nothing wrong wit that 2nd women. just don't let ya 1st women know, cause i don't care what you say Most women don't play that. We could sit up here all day and agree wit each other cause men know how it is, but i bet you if one of ya'll niggas reading this wit yo girl, you gone say "Im not like that" (LYING). WE ALL LIKE THAT. IT'S HUMAN NATURE......LOL

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puff mommy — Fri, 25 Jan 2008 09:11:38 GMT

@RedDeezo

Hmm well I guess if its just human nature you must not mind the growing number of cheating wives. I believe the percentage is at 55% for women and 60% for men. Ahh well. It is what it is. Everybody's just answering the call of nature after all, right?

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Divababy — Fri, 25 Jan 2008 13:48:21 GMT

THAT IS BULL SHYT!! I AM SO SICK OF YOU MEN SAYING YOU CAN'T BE WITH JUST ONE WOMAN. FOOL!! THAT MEANS YOUR WOMAN IS OUT WITH ANOTHER MAN!! IT GOES BOTH WAYS. WHILE YOU WITH THAT 2ND CHICK SHE'S WITH HER 2ND MAN OR MAYBE EVEN A THIRD!! SO AS QUICKLY AS YOU SAY NO MAN CAN BE WITH ONE WOMAN NO WOMAN CAN BE WITH JUST ONE MAN. WHEN THE SHOE IS ON THE OTHER FOOT IT DOESN'T FEEL RIGHT DOES IT. EVERYTIME YOU'RE WITH THAT 2ND CHICK JUST KEEP IMAGINING YOUR WOMAN GETTIN' IT FROM HER 2ND MAN. AND PLEASE DON'T SAY SHE AIN'T DOING THAT BECAUSE THATS THE SAME LIE SHE'S TELLING HERSELF ABOUT YOU. STOP THE NONSENSE. YOU DON'T NEED MORE THAN ONE LOVER YOU JUST NEED TO STEP YOUR GAME UP. TRUST IF YOUR BORED SHE'S BORED AND SHE'S GONNA TAKE CARE IT WITH OR WITHOUT YOU.

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offsafety — Fri, 25 Jan 2008 14:02:33 GMT

^^^
It's not bullshit at all. I've lived out the situation and I don't want to brag or sound like I know it all because it's not something to be proud of but I am positive my girl doesn't sleep around. You come off bitter. Maybe this has happened to you? I'm not saying you are wrong because that may be the situation but there are always other situations. Don't generalize so much out of anger or whatever it is that is driving you. This is how it is.

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odeisel — Fri, 25 Jan 2008 14:06:09 GMT

this is supporting female stupidity. if you gotta play games to keep your man from dicking down someone else you have low self esteem and you'll soon be knocked up and alone.

keep doing what you did to get him and you be aight. Don't change who you are because then you are living a lie

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junegemini — Fri, 25 Jan 2008 14:19:30 GMT

I don't know about all that "Other Woman" shit...I guess it works for some people...but if you and your man are on the same level as far as "worth" of the relationship, then neither one of yall should feel the need for something different or something better. As odeisel said, all the woman would be doing is living a lie if she has to change her characteristics for her man, if all that needs to be done, then she needs to find somebody else, and the same applies for the man...The same way you got him should be the same way to keep him!

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mellimell3 — Fri, 25 Jan 2008 17:42:17 GMT

@ junegemini:
How many relationships have you been in where the power in it was equal? In a relationship one person is always going to want the other more than they want them. That's life. The article is more so for serious relationships, not folks playing the field having fun. You better print this out, because one day you will need it. Think about it; 5,10,15 years in a relationship/marrige, do you think doing the same shit is keeping him interested. The only way that is possible is if you were wild out the gate to begin with, or letting him cheat in the relationship.

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SUNLARGE — Fri, 25 Jan 2008 18:00:02 GMT

i knew that comment red deezo would bring out some angry women! look, the rising number of women cheating is probably due to the fact that there are more women in relationships that are not going well. look up also the rising devoice rate. most you dont see a rising rate for men cheating. BECAUSE MEN HAVE ALWAYS CHEATED. if my girl was to cheat on me i feel like the relation ship is over because most women cheat because of emotional reasons.(not happy with the relationship shes in) if a man keeps a women happy 9 times out of 10 shes not going anywhere. but with a man, even if we're happy with our relationship and our girl is doing everything to keep us happy. 9 out of ten of us still gonna want to hit something new every once in a while. i've been with my girl for 6 years and i've only fucked around with 10 different women. the women looking at me like "you dirty ass nigga" niggas looking at me like "damn you been with your girl for 6 years and only fucked around with 10 different women"thats an average of only like what? two and a half new pussys a year? i know niggas that are married that go through 10 different girls in a month or two. it is what it is. women cant't understand what goes on in our mind. it hard to fight nature. sounds silly but you have to look at the animal world. to see how the males are and how the females are. because we are animals also. we have natural instincts also.

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SUNLARGE — Fri, 25 Jan 2008 18:11:49 GMT

also, to divababy and puff momma. first, are yall in relationships. second, are you guys happy in your relationships? are you or have you cheated on your current man?

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puff mommy — Sat, 26 Jan 2008 07:28:59 GMT

@SUNLARGE

LOL. I knew some guy would come in here trying to rationalise why women cheat. Most of the women surveyed said they were happy in their relationships, but they also felt entitled to it. And women have ALWAYS done this. Even during the stone age. It was more likely for a woman to SETTLE down with the stable guy, but CREEP with the guy that everyone says to stay away from. Because he could ensure that her male offspirng were more able to be able to spread their seed around. ALLOT of guys are raising kids that they are not the father of. The only difference between today and yesterday is technology. Now they can prove they are not the father. Women typically are better liars and thus better cheaters.....so how many guys are *absolutely* sure that their girls isnt cheating .....when she is?

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SUNLARGE — Sat, 26 Jan 2008 19:53:59 GMT

hmmmm, well lets see. first of all. i am not rationalizing why men cheat. i'm telling you why men cheat. i should know.....i'm a man. i dont need to look up a bunch of bullshit studies to tell you . a person would have to be one dumb s.o.b to believe 100% in those studies. but, if you want to go by the studies. all of the ones i found say most women cheat for emotional reasons and most men cheat for purely sexual reasons. and like i said before. they say WOMEN ARE CATCHING UP WITH MEN. meaning men have cheated consistently. i know i have h aha ha. ah. puffymommy, you got male friends, brothers, male cousins. ask them why they cheat. are any of you women cheating on your men? p.s. i've always told people that i wouldn't bet money that my girl never cheated on me. i would deserve it. just don't let me catch her. thats part of the game!

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Musiclover79 — Sun, 27 Jan 2008 02:46:21 GMT

Men cheat, why?

call it evolution...call it the order of God...whatever..but understand..It's such a bigger picture than we can dream..this is not limited to USA...just look at other countries...

Men are simple, no diss to them but they are slave to their dicks. Women are stronger then men, women cheat for affection/attention...yeah..there are some they say they love to fuck but a closer look and you prolly will find they were abused when they were younger.
Women are stronger then men.
That's right, I said it.
Unless society changes, stop using sex to sell clothes, phones, computers, music, blah blach men will continue to cheat. Also you have the women willing to partake in this cheating situation.
men are slave to pussy!
they were created this way for a reason!

if he's not, he is gay, older (not saying all..OLDER men do cheat!... but some have stopped or really slowed down), or really has a greater sense of consciousness to where he understanding his condition into this life..the choice is out there..most men wont go through that process.

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SUNLARGE — Sun, 27 Jan 2008 06:03:29 GMT

women are stronger than men in what way? because they cheat for affection? men were put on this earth to plant as many seeds as possible. its in our dna. love it or hate it. and yes we are very attracted to pussy. and women complain about this? in alot of other countries, it is accepted that a man has a misstress or more than one wife. in this country people seem to have more of a stick up there asses about everything. marriage would work a whole lot better in this country if men could just fuck around every now and then. ha ha ha ah

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ron art — Sun, 27 Jan 2008 10:12:34 GMT

damn good article...kiddies go back to the gossip section.

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Intelekt — Sun, 10 Feb 2008 05:21:21 GMT

Wow, well lol This is funny as hell. I really don't think these "natural" things about women and men are as true as some of you say. Women cheat for this, men cheat for that, men HAVE to cheat... it's bullshit man. I'm TELLIN you, if a good girl was down with me and treated me with love and respect, I really don't think I'd ever cheat on her, but yeah the sexual chemistry has to be there lol word. Sorry to spoil it for you dudes, but I never cheated on a girlfriend of mine, and I won't. Ladies, there is hope to find a loyal man, if you really value one and don't wanna be so fuckin picky with all this criteria lol He gotta work hard and be responsible and love me and spend time with me, but don't smother me! and fuck me right and be nice to me, but dont be too nice or you'll look like a bitch.... YO! Some of you females are MAD confusing. I know we all got our own little issues but some of yall... DAMN.

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SEXTHEDIVA — Fri, 22 Feb 2008 03:10:02 GMT

TO SUNLARGE, I HEAR WHAT U SAYING ABOUT MEN CHEATING BUT POINT BLANK I THINK MEN ARE JUST GREEDY. BECUASE I BEEN WITH MY MAN 4 YEARS AND YEAH WE HAVE PROBLEMS LIKE ANY NORMAL COUPLE BUT ONE THING I KNOW IS THAT HE HAS CHEATED, BUT WHAT I CAN'T UNDERSTAND IS WHY??? BECAUSE UNLIKE SOME FEMALES WHO DON'T DO CERTAIN SEXUAL THINGS OR WHATEVER, I SUCK AND FUCK MY MAN'S MIND OUT OF COMMISSION ON A VERY REGULAR BASIS AND I DO EVERY FREAKY THING THAT ANY JUMP OFF WOULD DO. SO WHY THEN DOES HE STILL CHEAT?? I FEEL BECAUSE HE'S GREEDY AND FEELS LIKE HE CAN GET AWAY WITH ITBUT I ALWAYS CATCH HIM!) SO AFTER REALIZING THAT I'VE BEEN CHEATED ON BEFORE BY HIM I DECIDED TO CHEAT ON HIM AND MY REASON FOR CHEATING ON HIM IS BECAUSE I WAS BORED WITH WORRYING ABOUT IF HE WAS CHEATING AND HONESTLY I CHEATED FOR THE AFFECTION OF THE NEXT NIGGA NOT FOR THE DICK (CAUSE THE OTHER DUDES DICK WAS WACK) I JUST NEEDED TO FEEL WANTED AND APPRECIATED AND I GOT THAT DONE. BUT BACK TO THIS ADVICE MIASHA GAVE IT IS ON POINT BUT SOME MEN ARE JUST "GREEDY"!