Editor's note: The views expressed inside this editorial DO NOT and ARE NOT reflective of the views of AllHipHop.com.The way Black people think in general is messed up. Both men and women need to change their way of thinking. Its hard to trust a Black woman [sometimes] because a lot of Black womens mind frame is that the man gotta do everything for her? he gotta pay for this, he gotta pay for that, and if it aint about money then a lot of them aint fucking with him. If thats what youre here for then I dont want to be with you.
Most single Black women feel like they dont want to settle for less. Their standards are too high right now. They have to understand that successful Black men are kind of extinct. Were important. Its hard to find us so Black women have to bow down and let it be known that they gotta start working hard; they gotta start cooking and being down for they man more. They cant just be running around with their head up in the air and passing all of us.
I have a brother that dates a White woman and he always be fucking with me about it saying, Yall gotta go through all that shit [but] my White woman is fine. She dont give me no problems, she do whatever I say and yall gotta do all that arguing and fighting and worry about all this other shit.
My girl is Black and White. I guess the half White in her is where she still cooks and do all the shit that I say, so we make it. She just takes care of me and I like that. She dont be begging and I dont gotta buy her all this crazy ass shit. And shes a smart girl too. She graduated from Columbia [University] and I like that about her so its cool. Ive dated girls that will buy a $3,000 bag and dont know how to pay it off on their credit cards. They walk around in these Louis Vuittons and red bottoms but theyre riding around in raggedy cars, so its just getting your priorities right.
White women treat they man like a king and Black women feel like they aint gotta do that shit. Black women need to stand by their man more.