Nelly faced backlash from Ashanti‘s family on national television after his decision to perform at a Donald Trump inauguration event resurfaced during a recent episode of their new reality series, reigniting a months-old controversy that clearly struck a nerve at home.
The moment unfolded when Ashanti sat down with her mother to reveal that Nelly had accepted the invitation and followed through with the performance. Her mother, visibly upset and shaking, called the move deeply personal given her family’s civil rights legacy. She recalled her father’s activism, including marching with Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. and helping dismantle segregation in their hometown.
“This is not just a performance,” Ashanti’s mother said, clearly emotional. “This is emotional for me.”
Ashanti acknowledged the tension, admitting she was torn between standing by her husband and honoring her family’s values. While she avoided making political statements, she emphasized that the decision wasn’t just Nelly’s—it had implications for both of them.
“It’s not just about him,” she said. “It affects me too.”
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Nelly later entered the scene, casually confirming he had done the show and brushing off the criticism. “I don’t think it’s that big of a deal,” he said, prompting immediate pushback from Ashanti’s mom, who disagreed.
The conversation spilled beyond the show when Nelly appeared on “Ebro in the Morning” to clarify his stance.
“I’ve never endorsed a president in my life,” he said. He explained that his choice was rooted in respect for the presidency and his connection to military families, not political allegiance. “People are trying to make it something it’s not.”
The episode highlighted the deeper rift between public decisions and private values, showing how one performance stirred emotional debates about legacy and identity. The performance took place six months ago but aired for the first time on the couple’s show last week.