Stevie J

Hip-Hop Rumors: Is Stevie J A Woman Abuser?

Our friends over at The Grio.com have posted a scathing article calling Stevie J out as a woman abuser. No, not in the same sense as Memphitz, allegedly – but they say Stevie is emotionally abusive towards his baby mama, Mimi Faust and his girlfriend, Joseline Hernandez.

The article was written by domestic violence survivor and advocate, Sil Lai Abrams, and she believes that although Stevie has publicly never laid a hand on the women, he is abusive towards them in other ways. Check out an excerpt of her article below:

Chronic infidelity is a form of abuse, as is bullying, name calling, put downs, intimidation and repeated threats of abandonment. Love & Hip Hop, Basketball Wives and its reality sistren consistently portray female cast members as belligerent, sexually manipulative, emotionally unstable and physically violent.

Those who sit in judgment of Joseline and Mimi don’t understand that one of the consequences of abuse is its effect on a victim’s mental health. The reality is that, women who are battered suffer from a disproportionately higher rate of mental health disorders. Look, I’m not a psychologist, but could it be possible that some of the “ratchet” behavior we ridicule on L&HHA or other exploitive “reality” shows are actually just a symptom of the Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder that often results from being abused? And if that’s the case, why are we laughing at women for having “normal” emotional responses to long-term trauma?

You can read the full article here. So, what do you think? Does Stevie J fall into the category of an emotionally abusive man?

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  • therealest1

    Not important shit. Played out reality show shit. Stevie J looks gay as shit.

    • Choppaliss

      u gay for looking at the nigga like that lol

      • therealest1

        Why does that make me gay just because I saw his picture and offered my feedback? People are entitled to post their comments on here. People see shit and comment on it, it doesn’t necessarily make them whatever.

        If someone looks gay, people will call it out regardless of same gender or not.

        You must be a Stevie J fanboy to defend him like that. Get off his nuts, he isn’t paying you to defend him like that.


  • Chronic infidelity is a form of abuse, as is bullying, name calling, put downs, intimidation and repeated threats of abandonment.”

    Women are just as guilty!

  • bigmarz

    stevie j looks like a pos

  • Qadir Muhammad

    Who cares how does that affect my every day life??????????? or anyone’s ??????

  • Guest

    This is sort of pointless. It’s pretty obvious that women who stay in abusive relationships are disabled in some mental capacity.

    In this case, how do we know that these women aren’t suffering from “man this is the best industry dude I can find”???

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  • Negro Peligro

    Stop selling me Love and Hiphop commercials. How much you get paid. You need to post who sponsoring these rumors.

    • ccwaterbound32

      i second that comment! who is sponsoring ya’ll to make up these s*itty azz rumors anyway?

      • Contraverse77

        Which aren’t even rumors in the first place. Man they need to fire the editor in chief now!!!!

        Sydney needs to quit her day job and look for something better to do….fight Joseline hernandez for Stevie J!!!

  • J. Smith

    This is unbelievable. Feminists will never get the respect they are looking for, until they start to take responsibility for their own. You expect to blame men for the ignorant behavior of ghetto trash? i guess that those mothers on the internet “twerking” with their babies in the background, have nothing to do with their daughters growing up to be “Belligerent”, “Sexually Manipulative”, Etc…
    Comments like these, make me not respect you .
    “Love & Hip Hop, Basketball Wives and its reality sistren consistently portray female cast members as belligerent, sexually manipulative, emotionally unstable and physically violent.” (It isn’t the shows fault! I know 200 women in my neighborhood with the same behavior)
    and
    “Those who sit in judgment of Joseline and Mimi don’t understand that one of the consequences of abuse is its effect on a victim’s mental health. The reality is that, women who are battered suffer from a disproportionately higher rate of mental health disorders. ” (The further reality is that, this is NONSENSE!)

  • 3rdcousin

    Stevie J is abusive true, but those females are grown. Its one thing to blame something or someone on why youre not where you could be in life but its another when you do nothing to change that. Say what you want…they must like the bed they sleep in.

  • Smashit

    Stevie just taking advantage of what’s available to him – before he found Joseline she was a runaway stripper so don’t blame him he gave her another source of income – as for Mimi she knew this dude a long time & when she finally tired of him she’ll move on – Stevie a clown & old at that but as long as he can find women to sleep with him he will keep doing what he do

  • pat wiley

    These women are not abused. They are just stupid. He is not beating or raping them.
    The verbal abuse is what they go along with to be on TV.
    Jose admits she is in it for the fame and money so she is actually not as stupid as baby mama.

  • Chris

    I believe Mimi said she’s been messin’ with this dude for 15 years. That’s just stupidity on her part. Can’t blame Stevie J for that.

  • brotha_man

    the females he mess wit are down in the dumps type broads…low self esteem having females. no matter what he does they never leave……so i say thats on them.

  • brotha_man

    syd in love with steve j on the low….always talking bout this man

  • BaybeK8s

    Yes,he wants to punish women because his Mother abandoned him. He has a type. He preys on women who have parent issues like him. He is going to mess with the wrong woman and we are going to be reading about another celebrity murder.

  • ccwaterbound32

    look at like this… if your a young girl and daddy aint there to guide you on how to deal with a man than you’ll latch on to anybody and i mean anybody (somebody who looks good but got bad intentions in other words.) than your in a bad relationship and get severely scared or emotionally detached from men. common sense ladies if a man hits you and beats your ass non stop leave his clown ass! if he cusses you out and calls you everything under the sun besides a mutt or some foul sounding name than leave his clown ass! simple. you got to love and appreciate yourself first before you can love someone else… think about it. how can you love someone or expect love from someone when you don’t even love yourself let alone get with a dude who don’t even love himself?

    Peace n luv

  • Southcidal

    Stevie J is a lame, like many other black men. We as black men can’t just keep running away from our familes (yes Mimi and their child was his family even if not married) just for a piece of azz. But its getting fashionable now. He used that tv show as a platform to beat his chest and brag about his infidelities. Back in the day the old heads would have a piece of azz on the side for years and still take care of the family. Key point is that they took care of the fam still. I wonder how his daughter is gonna deal with relationships? She probably will subconciously hate men and dike out.

    • RBG4Life

      This why they put certain people on tv to be viewed so that our women can hate their men and we can hate our women.

  • ANDRE SALAZAR

    Whatever he does to them, they let it happen! Last time I checked, it was a free country to do whatever you want, including letting a dude control you, while looking like a fool in front of the whole world! If they keep going back, I don’t see how he’s abusive. He brings in all of the money, while they bring nothing to the table financially. They’re nothing without him! #fact

  • Contraverse77

    Why is this dude (preferred term “Caveman” or “Mongol”) even being mentioned on this site? This egotistical, power hungry womanizer isn’t even HIP HOP.

    AHH and Sydney are slippin’ with this one. Him being a woman abuser is not a rumor…it’s a known fact! I mean if dude can straight up blatantly disrespect the mother of his kid like that on national T.V. then what else you think this cat is pulling behind the cameras.

    Scrap should’ve knocked this clown out!

  • RTEGonline

    Grew up with this clown in Upstate New York. He comes from a very musically talented family but he’s always had a screw loose. if he could f*** himself he would… he’s just that type of dude. Loves himself more than he could ever love anything or anyone else. I can’t help but laugh at him every time I see his face because the nigga isn’t acting… what you see is what you really get.

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  • Blessed

    Mimi makes me so angry. Beautiful woman who says she is self made but continues to enable the disrespect. She is so corny always cusing and acting hard when she know she should be doing better. That 15 years story is so silly to continue to say. In 15 years he made other children besides there 2 year old and dated numerous women. Lol Mimi is lost.