In an emotional revelation during a recent appearance on “TODAY with Hoda & Jenna,” music icon Mary J. Blige discussed the personal journey toward self-acceptance and embracing her unique sound.
The Grammy-award-winning artist, known for her soulful voice and moving lyrics, admitted to previously disliking the sound of her own voice, a sentiment that has taken years to overcome.
“I do now, I didn’t used to. I didn’t like the sound of my voice,” Blige stated, opening up about her past struggles with self-image and confidence.
This candid admission comes as a surprise to many, given Blige’s successful career spanning over three decades, marked by her signature vocal style that has garnered a devoted fan base and critical acclaim. Despite her initial discomfort with her vocals, Blige has grown to appreciate her unique sound, describing a significant shift in how she perceives her music.
“But now I listen to my music and now I love everything about me, I do. I used to hate everything about me. The sound of my voice, the sound of my speaking voice. And I used to just be afraid to hear any music back,” she explained.
This transformation highlights not only her journey to self-love but also the resilience and strength required to overcome personal hurdles. Blige, affectionately known as the Queen of Hip-Hop Soul, reflected on the importance of self-love and being one’s own biggest supporter.
The 53-year-old artist shared insights into how she has learned to celebrate her accomplishments and inner beauty.
“We grow up thinking we couldn’t boast or brag or love on ourselves, and now I’m doing all that,” Blige remarked, emphasizing the joy she finds in being her own friend and champion.
The interview sheds light on the often-overlooked challenges faced by public figures in reconciling their inner doubts with external perceptions.
For Mary J. Blige, the path to loving and accepting her voice has also been a journey of personal growth and healing, allowing her to connect with her music—and herself—in ways she once thought impossible.